Self Image
Focus on your successes and don't dwell
on your mistakes or failures. Replace negative feelings with positive
ones. Use positive self-talk on a daily basis. Let yourself know when
you're proud of something you've done. It's OK to feel good about
yourself.
The difference between successful
people and unsuccessful people is not just their ability or knowledge,
but the image they have of themselves. Successful men believe in
themselves. They have a deep sense of self-worth and a good self-image.
Self-image is the concept of who and what you are.
ALL YOU CAN DO IS YOUR BEST
Part of building your self-image is
setting goals. Whether your goals have to do with losing weight,
getting a promotion or learning a new skill, attainable goals are
essential. Remember, you can only do your best. Set aside time for
evaluation and fine-tuning of your goals.
SEEK SUPPORT
Do you have friends that make you
feel good about yourself? Make an effort to spend time with people
who value you. Stick with people who have positive attitudes and
enjoy life. You may also find it helpful to talk with a counselor or
therapist.
RECOGNIZE YOUR WORTH
Recognition of accomplishments must
begin within. Try this exercise. Make a list of 50 things you have
accomplished in your life. Take your entire life into account. You
will be surprised at how many things, small and large, that you can
add to the list. You will find that despite past mistakes or
problems, you deserve a pat on the back for the good that you have
done.
BE KIND TO YOURSELF
No matter what people say to us, the
things we say to ourselves are much worse and do far more damage.
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